Finding the Right Divorce Lawyer

 

Finding the right divorce lawyer is basically the key to a faster, less-expensive divorce, compared to a long drawn-out emotional and financial nightmare. But if you have no idea what to look for in a divorce lawyer, chances are you will be investing your money, hopes and dreams in the wrong one. Below are some tips in helping you find a divorce attorney that can help you with your divorce settlement.

 

You need to realize, first of all, that divorce is a legal process. Its purpose is to dissolve your assets and resolve child custody. You lawyer will be your representative in this process. They are not there to be your counselor so it is best that you refrain from expressing you anger, frustration, pain and sadness because this is not their job. So be realistic about their roles.

 

The ultimate purpose is to get divorced so stay focused on this. Do not allow your emotions to get the best of you when you are negotiating over material things that will not mean much in the big picture.

 

Consider other alternatives to the traditional litigation. If there are no children or finances that hinder the proceedings, then maybe a mediator would be better to negotiate the terms of your divorce. Mediation is the fastest and cheapest way to get divorced. If mediation settles everything, then there is no need to hire a lawyer.

 

Do not hire the first lawyer you meet. Find at least three divorce lawyers and interview them before making up your mind. You need a lawyer that specializes in family law and is experienced in the specific type of divorce that is best for you. The Attorney should have good legal knowledge and experience, is good in helping you understand the process, communicated and negotiate well, and has a lot of experience in the court system.

 

You can opt to call them and interview them over the phone. Ask as many questions as you can. Ask about their experiences, and their specialization within the family law. Ask them about their rates. Most lawyers charge an hourly fee and require a retainer - a fee charged in advance.

 

The Bankruptcy Attorney that you will choose to represent you should be local, professional, knowledgeable, and responsive and communicates well. You should choose one that you can trust and that you feel comfortable with. His style should work for you.

 

Choosing a divorce attorney is an important decision. However, there are no guarantees in this process. But, if you follow the steps above, you can find the right one.